I see the slogan #BestDayEver all over the place. There seems to be a certain amount of disagreement on what exactly constitutes the #BestDayEver. It comes up in commercials for traveling to exotic lands. I’ve seen it in conjunction with people who have just gotten married. One friend of mine used it when describing the day she received a job offer from a perspective employer. Another was all about the #BestDayEver when she found a pair of shoes she wanted on sale. I see it frequently in amusement park marketing. I even see the slogan accompanied by graphics of mouse-shaped ice cream bars, pretzels, and doughnuts.
So, what does make the #BestDayEver?
As much as I love amusement parks and the House of Mouse in particular, I have to suggest that a day at Disney, in itself, does not constitute the #BestDayEver. Shocking, perhaps, but there you have it.
I think we sometimes confuse fun, happiness, and joy. To determine the #BestDayEver, it might be useful to explore the differences between the three.
Fun is when you do a pleasurable activity. It could be traveling to a new vacation spot. It could be going to Disney World. It could be writing a blog. It could even be doing housework, if that is what floats your boat. Fun is great. It is still possible to be sad while having fun, however.
Happiness is what happens when you feel satisfied and content and light all over. Your world seems untroubled for the moment. The moon is in the seventh house and your planets are aligned. There is a line from a song from the play Wicked that says, “Happiness is what happens when all your dreams come true.” Happiness is wonderful. On the other hand, happiness is extremely fragile. It is dependent on external circumstances. The slightest turn of events has the power to turn happiness into grief.
Joy, on the other hand, is deeper and less transitory. Joy is about what completes you and fills your soul. It is all about the internal. It is the feeling of permanent peace, hope, faith, and love. It is about knowing that- no matter what is going on in the world around you, no matter what your immediate circumstances- your spirit is soaring, contented, precious, and beautiful. It is possible to be joyful, even when one is not having fun and even when one is unhappy. From my perspective, there is only one true source of Joy. That Joy that fills me and lifts me, even at times when life is neither fun nor happy, is the knowledge that, through Jesus, I am a cherished child of God.
Those of you who have been following along with my blog know that I have my dark moments. It is easy to see that I am not always having fun and I am not always happy. It might even seem like I don’t always feel the Joy. I think that, maybe, none of us will ever experience the completeness of Joy in this life. However, as I grow in wisdom, age, and favor, I get closer to the Joy. I get a little taste of what the bliss of Heaven will be. Maybe we develop our most authentic relationships with God and with our fellow souls by the constant effort to reach for the Joy each day. As I reach for it more and more, I find it more often.
I often think about what plans God has for me and what my purpose is in this life. I’ve talked before about my belief that my mission is to do ordinary things with extraordinary love. I hope, as I meander through life, that I can shine the light on the Joy for others so they, too, can get a little taste of that Heaven on earth.
So, what makes the #BestDayEver? Surely, it would be a day when I am having fun, feeling happy, AND experiencing Joy. Joy is the most important ingredient, though. A happy day doing something fun without Joy can never be the #BestDayEver. In fact, any day without Joy would be the #WorstDayEver!
What is joy for you? Please share your perspective by leaving a comment. In the alternative, you can email me at email@example.com.
Have a fun, happy, and joyful day!
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2 thoughts on “#BestDayEver”
My most recent #BestDayEver was on Christmas Day. All 3 of our adult children had ventured away from the frozen north (Boston) to spend the holiday with us. All of them are city-dwellers, living the busy life: working hard at their jobs and keeping up an active social calendar. 2 of them had desired a road trip adventure (the girls) and our son Zack flew down, and all arrived in Florida and returned home safely. Thank you, God.
Christmas Eve we attended our candlelight service at church, during which the sweet sounds of Christmas songs filled my ears. My 36 year old daughter slipped her hand into mine.
The air was filled with the Holy Spirit.
My heart was so full it forced happy tears to leak from my eyes. The Christmas lights were so much brighter on the way home!
After an evening full of merry and memory-making we headed off to bed. The following morning, Christmas Day, we were up, one after another, for coffee, our traditional orange rolls and PRESENTS. The day was easy and sweet, and we ended our day with a leisurely dinner at Akina.
In the ledgers within my mind there have been more exciting and exotic days, but this was one of the purest. #BestDayEver.
That sounds like a wonderful fun, happy, AND joyful day!
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